Tsis muaj kev tshwm sim tuaj yeem tuav tau yam tsis muaj kev txhawb nqa los ntawm ntau tus neeg. Yog tias koj raug nug kom hais ua tsaug thaum kawg ntawm kev sib tham, sib sau ua ke, kev coj noj coj ua, lossis lwm yam kev tshwm sim, koj yuav tsum muaj peev xwm sawv cev rau lub koom haum los ua tsaug rau txhua tus uas tau pab ua qhov xwm txheej tshwm sim. Pib los ntawm kev xa kab lus qhib muaj zog, ua tsaug rau cov neeg mloog sai thiab ua siab zoo, tom qab ntawd xaus koj cov lus.
Kauj ruam
Txoj Kev 1 ntawm 3: Ua Qhib Kab Lus
Kauj Ruam 1. Npe cov neeg uas yuav tsum tau ua tsaug
Muaj ntau tus neeg uas pib ua lawv tsaug vim hais txog lub npe ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib uas tau pab. Koj thawj kab lus yuav tsum qhia cov neeg mloog tias koj tab tom tham nrog lawv, thiab ua rau lawv xav tias suav nrog hauv kev ua tsaug.
Qhib kab lus zoo li no koj yuav nquag hais nrog "Nyob zoo cov phooj ywg, cov phooj ywg thiab cov txheeb ze …" Hloov kab lus raws li qhov xwm txheej; Koj tuaj yeem hloov nws, piv txwv li "Mr. Tus Thawj Xib Fwb thiab Tus Thawj Xibfwb, cov xibfwb thiab cov menyuam kawm ntawv uas kuv hwm …"
Kauj Ruam 2. Qhia koj tus kheej thiab koj lub luag haujlwm
Yog tias koj tseem tsis tau hais cov npe, qhov no yog lub sijhawm zoo. Qhia rau cov neeg mloog tias koj tau raug nug kom hais ua tsaug, tom qab ntawd piav qhia koj kev sib raug zoo rau lub koom haum hauv 1 lossis 2 kab lus. Koj tseem tuaj yeem hais txog koj lub luag haujlwm hauv qhov kev tshwm sim.
Piv txwv li: “Kuv lub npe yog Fajar, tus thawj coj ntawm Pawg Saib Xyuas Kev Tiv Thaiv Kev thab plaub. Kuv vam tias koj txhua tus nyiam qhov kev sib tham qhia paub uas peb lub koom haum muaj niaj hnub no. Nws yog kev hwm ua tsaug rau txhua tus neeg uas tau pab peb npaj qhov xwm txheej no."
Kauj Ruam 3. Npe lub koom haum uas coj txhua tus tuaj koom ua ke
Txhua tus neeg uas nyob ntawd yeej muaj kev koom tes nrog lub koom haum hosting. Yog li, ua ntej txav mus rau qhov kev kawm, nws yog lub tswv yim zoo los ua tsaug rau cov koom haum kev tshwm sim.
Piv txwv li: “Peb yuav tsis tuaj yeem npaj qhov xwm txheej no yam tsis muaj kev pab los ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv. Yog li, ua ntej tshaj plaws, kuv xav hais ua tsaug ntau rau lub sijhawm uas lub tsev kawm ntawv tau muab rau peb kom peb tuaj yeem sib sau ua ke hnub no."
Txoj Kev 2 ntawm 3: Sau Keynote
Kauj Ruam 1. Txheeb xyuas cov neeg koj xav ua tsaug
Cov npe no feem ntau suav nrog cov qhua, koom nrog, koom nrog, tuaj pab dawb, thiab txhawb nqa. Ua ntej muab koj cov lus hais, txiav txim siab tus neeg thiab pab pawg twg koj yuav hais hauv koj cov lus tseem ceeb yog li koj tsis txhob hnov qab dab tsi tom qab.
- Txhua tus, tsis hais lawv lub luag haujlwm hauv qhov xwm txheej, xav kom pom tias yog qhov tseem ceeb. Thaum koj ua tsaug rau ib tus neeg rau lawv lub sijhawm lossis kev txhawb nqa, hais txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm lawv txoj kev koom tes rau qhov kev tshwm sim.
- Piv txwv li: “Kuv xav ua tsaug rau cov kws qhia ntawv uas siv sijhawm los qhia kom cov tub ntxhais kawm tau hnov cov lus no. Qhov xwm txheej no yuav ua tsis tau yog tias koj tsis muaj kev txhawb nqa."
Kauj Ruam 2. Tsis txhob ua dhau
Ua tsaug ua tsaug ntau ntau. Tsis txhob muab cov ntawv ua tsaug uas ntev heev thiab tsis txhob hais dab tsi ntxiv; cov neeg saib tau poob siab thiab tus neeg tau ua tsaug ua rau tsis zoo. Ua kom txhua tus ua tsaug rau koj luv, sov, thiab ncaj ncees.
Es tsis txhob hais tias "Mr. Tiswo, peb suav tsis tau ua tsaug ntau uas peb tuaj yeem muab rau qiv peb chav rau xyaum. Koj lub siab dawb paug thiab ua siab zoo rau cov koom haum yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws thiab peb tsis tuaj yeem ua dab tsi yog tsis muaj koj ", sim hais" Mr. thaum peb nyuaj nrhiav chaw."
Kauj Ruam 3. Qhia tawm lub sijhawm nco tseg ntawm qhov xwm txheej, tom qab ntawd teb
Qhia tus neeg hais lus/tus saib pom tias koj tau mloog zoo los ntawm kev qhia qee yam uas koj nco qab. Hauv ob peb kab lus, hais qhia cov tswv yim los ntawm tus hais lus thiab qhia lawv qhov cuam tshuam nrog lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb ntawm qhov xwm txheej.
- Xaiv ib yam uas koj nyiam thiab hais tias koj pom zoo. Tsis txhob tham txog qee yam uas koj tsis pom zoo nrog: koj yuav tsum hais lus zoo.
- Piv txwv li: “Qhov kuv nco tshaj plaws yog thaum Karin hais tias cov menyuam feem ntau raug thab plaub vim muaj teeb meem hauv lawv tsev neeg. Qhov kev tshwm sim no yog ua los txhawb kev paub thiab txhawb siab zoo. Yog li, kuv xav tias Karin hais dab tsi peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov zoo."
Txoj Kev 3 ntawm 3: Ua Tiav Kev Pom Zoo
Kauj Ruam 1. Sau cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb ntawm koj lub koom haum
Thaum kawg ntawm koj cov lus hais, tham txog dab tsi ua rau koj lub koom haum tshwj xeeb. Koj tuaj yeem hais txog txoj hauv kev uas lub koom haum tau pab zej zog, txawm tias nyob rau qhov loj lossis me me. Koj yuav tsum tau txais cov neeg tuaj saib tawm ntawm qhov chaw nrog kev xav zoo txog koj pab pawg.
Piv txwv li: “Kuv xav ua tsaug txhua tus uas tau pab pab pawg hauv kev teeb tsa qhov kev tawm tsam kev thab plaub no. Peb yuav tsis tso tseg sim tsim ib puag ncig nyab xeeb hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab cov xwm txheej zoo li no tuaj yeem pab peb ua tiav lub hom phiaj ntawd."
Kauj Ruam 2. Tsis txhob ua tsaug rau tus neeg tshwj xeeb tom kawg ntawm kev hais lus
Qhov zoo tshaj plaws, kev hais txog ib tus neeg tshwj xeeb yuav tsum ua tiav hauv kev hais lus tseem ceeb. Thaum xa cov ntawv kaw, hais lus hauv cov ntsiab lus dav dav rau tag nrho cov neeg mloog - tsis txhob tig koj lub ntsej muag rau lwm tus los ntawm kev hais lawv lub npe.
Kauj Ruam 3. Ua kom ntseeg tau tias daim ntawv ua tsaug yog luv luv
Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj los khaws koj cov lus ua tsaug-luv luv thiab yooj yim, tshwj xeeb yog thaum kawg. Qhov no yog qhov kawg ntawm qhov kev tshwm sim yog li cov neeg mloog tsis xav kom tos. Hwm lawv lub sijhawm thiab txwv qhov koj hais rau yam uas tsim nyog.
