Ntau yam qee zaum qee zaum ua rau koj yuam kom ncua sijhawm teem sijhawm, piv txwv li vim tias koj tab tom ntsib xwm txheej kub ntxhov, raug teeb meem kev tsheb sib tsoo, lossis tswj tsis tau koj lub sijhawm. Tej zaum koj yuav txhawj xeeb thaum koj xav txog yuav ua li cas ceeb toom rau kev tshem tawm, tab sis cov neeg uas nrhiav tsis tau tuaj yeem nkag siab yog tias koj qhia rau lawv paub sai li sai tau. Teem sijhawm teem rooj sib tham tshiab thaum koj tiv tauj nws lossis thaum muaj lub sijhawm tshwm sim. Txhawm rau kom nws xis nyob, thov ntsib hauv qhov chaw ze ntawm nws lub tsev lossis chaw haujlwm.
Kauj ruam
Ntu 1 ntawm 2: Ncua Sijhawm Teem Sijhawm
Kauj Ruam 1. Tiv tauj tus neeg uas ploj lawm sai li sai tau
Koj tab tom thab lwm tus neeg yog tias koj tso tseg ncua koj lub sijhawm kom txog thaum feeb kawg. Qhia nws ua ntej ntawm lub sijhawm qhia tias koj hwm nws thiab txaus siab rau lub sijhawm nws tau npaj rau koj.
Kauj Ruam 2. Qhia rau koj tus kheej hauv xov tooj yog tias koj tshem tawm lub sijhawm teem uas ze heev
Koj yuav tsum hu xov tooj tuaj ceeb toom rau tus kheej yog tias koj ncua sijhawm teem sijhawm nyob rau tib hnub. Ncua sij hawm teem tseg sai li sai tau kom lwm tus neeg tsis txaus siab yuav zoo li tsis tsim nyog yog tias koj qhia rau lawv paub ntawm email, ntawv xov xwm, lossis lwm tus.
Kauj Ruam 3. Muab kev thov txim siab ncaj
Txawm hais tias koj qhia lawv ua ntej, xyuas kom lawv paub tias koj thov txim uas koj tau thim koj lub sijhawm teem tseg. Tej zaum nws poob siab tias koj tau tshem koj lub sijhawm teem tseg, txawm tias nws twb tau tso tseg lwm cov phiaj xwm los ntsib koj lawm.
- Xa qhov kev thov luv luv, ncaj ncees, piv txwv li, "Thov txim, Kuv tuaj tsis tau tag kis."
- Tsis txhob siv cov lus tsis meej lossis hais tias koj "yuav" tsis ua raws koj cov lus cog tseg. Qhia xov xwm ncaj ncees thiab ncaj ncees.
Kauj Ruam 4. Muab cov lus piav qhia luv luv txog vim li cas koj thiaj li ncua sijhawm teem sijhawm
Yog tias qhov laj thawj yog qhov laj thawj, piv txwv li, vim lub tsheb tawg lossis koj muaj mob, qhia rau nws paub tias nws yog dab tsi. Yog tias qhov laj thawj nyuaj rau lees txais, piv txwv li vim tias koj tsis nco qab teem sijhawm lossis ua yuam kev ob zaug, muab qhov laj thawj dav dav, piv txwv li, "Thov txim, Kuv muaj qhov xav tau sai."
- Koj tsis tas yuav muab cov laj thawj ntxaws txawm hais tias koj qhia qhov tseeb. Kev piav qhia qhov ntev ua rau nws zoo li koj xav npog ib yam dab tsi.
- Tsis txhob hais tias, "Kuv muaj ntau yam tseem ceeb ua" lossis qee qhov kev zam txim zoo sib xws.
- Tsis txhob dag vim tias kev sib raug zoo yuav muaj teeb meem yog tias nws tau qhia tawm tias koj tsis ncaj ncees.
Kauj Ruam 5. Ua kom nws paub tias koj muaj nuj nqis rau nws lub sijhawm
Ua kom pom tseeb tias koj txaus siab rau nws txoj kev txaus siab ua sijhawm rau koj thiab tias koj thov txim tiag tiag uas nws tau thim qhov kev teem sijhawm vim koj nkag siab tias nws tsis khoom thiab tau teem sijhawm ntsib koj.
Qhov no yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj tab tom teem sijhawm nrog cov neeg koj xav tau kev pab nrog, xws li cov kws tshaj lij lossis cov neeg siv khoom
Ntu 2 ntawm 2: Teem Sijhawm Hloov Chaw
Kauj Ruam 1. Nug nws txoj kev txaus siab hloov lub sijhawm ntawm lub rooj sib tham thaum koj tshaj tawm xov xwm
Sib nrug los ntawm kev txo qhov kev nyuab siab uas yuav tsum tau ntsib nws dua kom teem sijhawm, cov theem no qhia tau tias koj xav pom nws tiag tiag. Thaum hu lossis xa email, xaus qhov hais tias koj xav teem sijhawm ntxiv yog tias nws tsis mloog.
Kauj Ruam 2. Txheeb xyuas koj lub sijhawm thiab sau tseg lub sijhawm uas tuaj yeem ntsib nws
Koj tuaj yeem hais qhia lub sijhawm sib tham, tab sis sim ua kom haum koj lub sijhawm rau hauv nws lub sijhawm. Muab ob peb txoj kev xaiv sijhawm teem tseg thiab tom qab ntawd nug kom tawm tswv yim.
Piv txwv, qhia nws, "Kuv lub sijhawm tsis tau sau nyob rau hnub Monday txij thaum sawv ntxov txog yav tsaus ntuj, Hnub Thursday txij li 1 txog 5, thiab Hnub Friday tom qab 2, tab sis yog tias koj ua tsis tau, kuv yuav kho lub sijhawm."
Kauj Ruam 3. Qhia tias lub rooj sib tham yuav tsum muaj nyob ntawm qhov chaw ze ntawm nws lub tsev lossis chaw haujlwm
Raws li kev them nyiaj rau kev tshem tawm lub sijhawm teem, nws yog lub tswv yim zoo los npaj lub rooj sib tham hauv qhov chaw uas nws tuaj yeem mus tau yooj yim, xws li ntawm nws lub chaw haujlwm lossis qee qhov chaw uas nws hla los ntawm nws txoj kev mus tsev.
Xwb, qhia kev sib tham siv Skype lossis Google Hangouts yog tias nws tsis khoom lossis nyob hauv nroog
Kauj Ruam 4. Txheeb xyuas lub sijhawm hloov chaw uas koj tuaj yeem ntsib
Tom qab tshem thawj lub sijhawm teem tseg, tsis txhob cia zaum thib ob raug tshem tawm dua. Ntxiv rau qhov ua rau muaj kev thab plaub thiab tsis xis nyob, qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau koj lub koob npe nrov puas. Ua ntej pom zoo rau lub sijhawm hloov chaw, txheeb xyuas koj lub sijhawm kom zoo thiab paub tseeb tias koj tuaj yeem ntsib koj li kev teem sijhawm raws li lub sijhawm tshiab.
Piv txwv li, koj tsis tau teem sijhawm thaum lub Kaum Ob Hlis, tab sis feem ntau, koj muaj ntau yam dej num ua ntej xyoo tshiab. Yog li, tsis txhob sau lub sijhawm ntawd nrog lub sijhawm hloov chaw
Kauj Ruam 5. Sau daim ntawv pom zoo lub sijhawm teem rooj sib tham tshiab
Yog tias muaj sijhawm hloov chaw, sau nws rau ntawm cov txheej txheem. Tsis tas li, sau koj daim ntawv teev sijhawm ntawm ib daim ntawv thiab muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw pom yooj yim raws li kev ceeb toom.
Kauj Ruam 6. Ua tsaug rau lawv rau lawv txoj kev nkag siab thiab ua siab ntev thaum koj ntsib lawv/nws
Qhib kev sib tham los ntawm kev ua tsaug rau nws (lossis lawv) rau kev pom zoo tso tseg kev teem sijhawm. Koj tsis tas yuav thov txim dua. Hloov chaw, qhia tias koj muaj nuj nqis rau nws lub sijhawm los ntawm kev txaus siab rau lub sijhawm los hloov lub sijhawm.
Lub tswv yim
- Ntau li ntau tau, tsis thim cov rooj sib tham teem sijhawm vim nws tuaj yeem ua rau lub koob npe nrov thiab kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus neeg.
- Ua ntej nkag rau hauv daim ntawv cog lus nrog ib tus neeg uas muab kev pabcuam them nyiaj, xws li tus kws pab tswv yim, nrhiav seb koj puas thim koj lub sijhawm teem nrog nws lossis nws.
