Kev ua tsis raug yog qhov ua yuam kev uas tom qab ua tiav feem ntau yuav ua raws qhov kev lees paub tias yog tias peb tau ua tib zoo saib xyuas lub luag haujlwm, qhov yuam kev yuav tsis tshwm sim. Ib ntawm thawj cov kauj ruam txhawm rau nres kev ua yuam kev yog lees paub tias koj tau ua, yog li yog koj tab tom nyeem nplooj ntawv no, koj twb tau ua tiav thawj kauj ruam lawm. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov tias txhua tus neeg ua yuam kev, tab sis muaj ntau txoj hauv kev los txhim kho yog tias koj ua ntau yam ua tsis raug cai. Qhov ua kom yuam kev yog kom nkag siab koj qhov ua yuam kev, npaj kom zoo, txhim kho koj lub sijhawm tswj hwm, thiab nyob zoo, so, thiab nkag siab zoo.
Kauj ruam
Txoj Kev 1 ntawm 4: Nkag Siab Qhov Yuam Kev
Kauj Ruam 1. Paub tias ua yuam kev yog ib txwm muaj
Yog li koj puas tau ua yuam kev? Txhob poob siab. Peb txhua tus yog tib neeg uas tsis muaj qhov yuam kev.
- Kev tshawb fawb txog kev puas siab ntsws tsis ntev los no tau qhia tias muaj ob lub hlwb teb tom qab koj ua yuam kev. Thawj lo lus teb hais tias, "Ua tib zoo mloog!" thiab nws zoo li lub tswb ceeb toom uas ua rau koj xav tias, "Dab tsi tshwm sim thiab vim li cas?" Qhov lus teb thib ob zoo li yog lub hlwb kaw, pom qhov tsis zoo ceeb toom koj tau muab rau koj tus kheej li kev hem thawj, thiab tom qab ntawd tsis xav xav txog nws ntxiv lawm.
- Cov neeg koom nrog txoj kev kawm uas tau teb rau thawj txoj hauv kev feem ntau yuav kawm los ntawm kev ua yuam kev thiab hloov tus cwj pwm.
- Cov neeg koom nrog uas tau teb ob txoj hauv kev, uas tsis muaj qhov ntsiag to lossis tsis txaus siab, xav rov ua qhov qub ib yam ntawm qhov ua yuam kev ntau thiab ntau dua.
Kauj Ruam 2. Sau qhov yuam kev uas koj ua txhua lub lim tiam
Puas yog qhov ua yuam kev hauv chaw ua haujlwm lossis tsev kawm ntawv? Lossis puas yog qhov ua yuam kev hauv tsev? Koj puas ua yuam kev thaum tsav tsheb lossis thaum saib xyuas qee yam? Koj puas tau ua tsis tau raws sijhawm ua haujlwm? Koj puas tau hnov qab them nqi lossis pub tsiaj rau? Tso cov yuam sij hauv tsheb? Khiav tawm ntawm cov roj?
- Thawj kauj ruam raug yog lees koj qhov ua yuam kev thiab nkag siab hom kev ua yuam kev uas koj tau ua.
- Koj tuaj yeem nrhiav paub yuav ua li cas zam kev ua yuam kev tib yam los ntawm kev taug cov qauv ntawm qhov ua yuam kev.
Kauj Ruam 3. Paub tias yam twg ua rau koj ua tsis raug cai
Nug koj tus kheej tias vim li cas koj thiaj ua qee yam yuam kev. Puas yog koj maj nrawm vim koj tau siv sijhawm ncua sijhawm? Puas yog koj ntxhov siab thiab xav txog lwm yam?
Ib sab ntawm txhua qhov yuam kev koj sau, suav nrog qhov koj tuaj yeem zam nws li cas. Piv txwv: siv sijhawm ntau los ua qhov no, pib ntxov, tsom mus rau yam kuv tab tom ua, thiab lwm yam
Kauj Ruam 4. Tham txog koj qhov ua yuam kev rau lwm tus
Kev ua tsis raug zoo tuaj yeem ua los ntawm ib tus neeg, thiab qee tus neeg uas koj paub yuav muaj lub tswv yim txhawm rau kho tus cwj pwm uas ua rau qhov ua yuam kev tshwm sim.
- Sim tham nrog tus phooj ywg uas ntseeg siab txog yam koj tau ua tsis raug. Yog tias koj tus phooj ywg muaj ntau yam nrog koj, muaj feem yuav nws tau ua yuam kev ib yam.
- Yog tias koj ua yuam kev ntawm kev ua haujlwm, tham nrog tus kws paub dhau los uas koj tau koom nrog, sim tham txog yuav ua li cas zam kev ua yuam kev nrog nws lossis koj li ntawd koj tuaj yeem nkag siab.
Txoj Kev 2 ntawm 4: Ua Chaw
Kauj Ruam 1. Siv daim ntawv qhia hnub
Thiab, siv tsuas yog ib qho. Yuav daim ntawv qhia hnub yog tias koj tsis muaj. Yog tias koj muaj, xyuas kom koj siv nws. Muaj ntau hom daim qhia hnub hli, uas yog daim qhia hnub hli lossis ua-rau ntawm koj lub xov tooj ntawm tes lossis khoos phis tawj, lossis cov ntawv ntawm daim ntawv qhia hnub hli.
- Kev ua yuam kev ntau zaus tshwm sim vim tias koj tsis nco qab ua qee yam. Kev sau lossis sau cov lus cog tseg yav tom ntej, teem sijhawm, thiab sijhawm kawg ntawm daim ntawv qhia hnub tuaj yeem pab tau zoo heev.
- Xim coding daim ntawv qhia hnub kuj tseem tuaj yeem pab tau, piv txwv li, liab rau ua haujlwm, xiav rau menyuam yaus, ntsuab rau nyiam ua haujlwm, thiab lwm yam. Ua tibzoo saib lub lim tiam tom ntej cov phiaj xwm thiab sau tseg yam koj yuav tsum tau ua txhawm rau npaj rau yav tom ntej kev tshwm sim.
Kauj Ruam 2. Ntxuav koj ib puag ncig
Yog tias koj ib puag ncig tau huv thiab tau teeb tsa, koj yuav xav tsis thoob thaum pom tias koj lub siab nyob ntsiag to thiab koj tuaj yeem mloog zoo ntxiv.
- Ua tej yam tiav hauv tsev, tas li. Tsis txhob tawm hauv chav tsis muaj tes yog tias qee yam tsis haum.
- Ua "lub thawv pub dawb" rau cov khoom koj tsis xav tau thiab xav pub dawb.
- Tsim kom muaj cov ntaub ntawv teev tseg nyob hauv chaw ua haujlwm.
Kauj Ruam 3. Siv daim ntawv txheeb thiab cov npe ua
Yuav ib phau ntawv thiab pib sau dab tsi koj yuav tsum ua. Piv txwv li, kho lub tsev, mus yuav khoom, thiab txhua yam kev xav uas koj xav tau kom tawm ntawm koj lub siab, sau lawv rau ntawm daim ntawv, tom qab ntawd khij lawv tawm thaum koj ua tiav.
Dab tsi koj sau tseg ntawm no tsis yog cov haujlwm nrog cov hnub tshwj xeeb thiab sijhawm uas yuav tsum tau sau tseg hauv daim ntawv qhia hnub, tab sis cov khoom dav dav uas koj yuav tsum tau ua haujlwm ntawm qee kis yav tom ntej
Txoj Kev 3 ntawm 4: Txhim Kho Kev Tswj Sijhawm
Kauj Ruam 1. Teem ua ntej
Ua ib daim ntawv teev cov khoom tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv koj lub neej, ua ntej. Tom qab ntawd, thaum koj npaj ua ib yam dab tsi, txiav txim siab tias "tseem ceeb" nws yog dab tsi. Nws yuav yog lub tswv yim zoo los tshuaj xyuas qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev nqis tes ua rau koj lossis seb koj puas tuaj yeem siv koj lub sijhawm kom ntse dua ua lwm yam.
Yog tias koj tau teev cov npe lossis yuav tsum ua cov npe, sau cov luag haujlwm hauv qhov tseem ceeb tseem tuaj yeem pab koj txiav txim siab yuav ua dab tsi ua ntej, thib ob, thib peb, thiab lwm yam
Kauj Ruam 2. Ua kom yooj yim rau koj lub sijhawm
Yog tias koj tseem muaj teeb meem tswj hwm koj lub luag haujlwm yam tsis tau ua qhov tsis raug, nws yuav yog vim koj tab tom ua haujlwm ntau dhau. Cov sijhawm hauv ib hnub yog txwv. Muaj pes tsawg yam koj nyiam ua thiab koj siv sijhawm ntau npaum li cas rau lawv?
- Siv sijhawm so thiab txaus siab rau lub neej yog qhov tseem ceeb heev, tab sis koj lub sijhawm ua tiav nrog "kev lom zem" kev cog lus uas koj xav tias koj tsis muaj sijhawm?
- Rov tshuaj xyuas daim ntawv teev npe tseem ceeb dua thiab xyuas kom tseeb tias koj mob siab rau lub sijhawm txaus los tsom mus rau qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm cov npe.
Kauj Ruam 3. Thov kev pab
Qhov no tseem paub tias yog kev lav phib xaub rau lub luag haujlwm. Ua kom ntseeg tau tias txhua tus neeg hauv tsev ua haujlwm thiab muaj txiaj ntsig zoo hauv kev ua haujlwm hauv tsev. Yog tias txoj haujlwm ua haujlwm loj dhau rau koj kom ua tiav ntawm koj tus kheej, sau npe kev pab ntawm lwm tus ntau npaum li lawv tuaj yeem ua tau.
Txoj Kev 4 ntawm 4: Tswj tus Cwj Pwm Zoo, So thiab Ruaj Ntseg
Kauj Ruam 1. Ua raws li lub txaj thiab noj mov tsis tu ncua
Kev tsis tsaug zog thiab/lossis khoom noj khoom haus yuav ua rau tib neeg tsis nco qab thiab ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab qaug zog, uas tuaj yeem yooj yim ua rau ua tsis raug.
- Sim mus pw thiab sawv hauv tib lub sijhawm txhua hnub, noj zaub mov zoo nyob rau tib lub sijhawm txhua hnub.
- Siv sijhawm rau kev tawm dag zog, piv txwv li ntau zaus hauv ib lub lis piam tsawg kawg 20 feeb. Lub cev noj qab nyob zoo yog lub tsev muaj lub siab zoo.
Kauj Ruam 2. So lub sijhawm
Kev nkag siab yog lwm txoj hauv kev hais tias koj tau mloog zoo thiab paub txog txhua yam koj tab tom ua, txhua lub sijhawm. Qhov no tuaj yeem pab koj pib txoj kev xav tshiab thiab txoj hauv kev tshiab rau kev txiav txim siab.
Feem ntau, nws yog yam me me hauv lub neej uas peb ua yuam kev, yam peb xav tias peb tsis tas yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo mloog thiab peb xav tias peb twb paub lawm. Yog li ntawd, rhiab heev yuav pab tau
Kauj Ruam 3. Lim tawm cov ntaub ntawv tsis tseem ceeb
Thaum nrhiav txoj hauv kev los ua tib zoo mloog rau yam tseem ceeb hauv lub neej, nug koj tus kheej yog tias koj lub siab puv nrog yam tsis tseem ceeb, xws li kev hais lus tsis zoo, kev tshaj xov xwm, thiab lwm yam.
Nug koj tus kheej, "Qhov no txhais tau li cas tiag rau kuv? Nws cuam tshuam li cas rau kuv lub neej? " Yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem teb nws sai, tej zaum tsis tseem ceeb, tsuas yog cov ntaub ntawv ntxiv uas yuav ntxiv rau koj qib kev ntxhov siab
Kauj Ruam 4. Siv qee lub sijhawm so kom zoo rau koj tus kheej
Paub txog txhua yam koj ua, txawm tias nws tsuas yog saib yeeb yaj kiab lossis TV, noj khoom txom ncauj, lossis hu phooj ywg.
- Piv txwv li, koj yuav nug koj tus kheej cov lus nug no thaum saib TV, "Kuv puas tau fij qee yam los saib zaj yeeb yaj kiab no? Kuv puas yuav tsum ua lwm yam? Dab tsi yuav tshwm sim / yuav tsis tshwm sim yog tias kuv saib zaj yeeb yaj kiab no? Qhov no tseem ceeb, lossis lwm yam tuaj yeem tos?"
- Kev so yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev, tab sis qee zaum nws nyuaj rau so tiag tiag yog tias muaj lwm yam uas peb xav tias peb yuav tsum tau ua thaum lub sijhawm.
Kauj Ruam 5. Qhia koj tus kheej tias lwm zaus koj yuav zoo dua
Tsis txhob cia ib qho yuam kev ua rau koj poob siab. Koj tsis tas yuav yog tus ua tiav qhov zoo. Tsis txhob liam koj rau lwm tus, lossis rau txim rau koj tus kheej. Sawv daws ua yuam kev. Qhov teeb meem yog koj yuav daws nws li cas. Xav txog yam koj tuaj yeem ua tau los daws qhov teeb meem thiab tsis txhob nyob ntev li ntev.
Kauj Ruam 6. Nrhiav kev pab los ntawm kws kho mob yog tias koj xav tias nyuaj siab, ntxhov siab, lossis nyuaj siab
Kev ua yuam kev tsis raug yog ib txwm muaj hauv lub neej, thiab yuav tsum tsis txhob ntxhov siab rau koj. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj tab tom xav txog lossis liam koj tus kheej rau qee yam tsis raug, txiav txim siab mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb. Tej zaum kev kho mob tuaj yeem pab koj.
- Kev ua neeg zoo tag nrho lossis kev xav tswj hwm txhua yam tuaj yeem cuam tshuam nrog ntau yam hauv lub neej. Kev kho tuaj yeem pab koj kawm paub tso me ntsis.
- Kev nyuaj siab loj kuj tseem tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau koj kev noj qab haus huv. Hu rau tus kws pab tswv yim lossis kws kho mob tham txog yam cuam tshuam rau koj.
