Diav yog cov khoom uas tuaj yeem muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw haum zoo. Ib yam nkaus, txoj haujlwm "diav" ua kom muaj kev sib raug zoo thiab kev nplij siab, yog li koj thiab koj tus khub tuaj yeem ua ke ua ke kom haum, zoo li ob rab diav hauv lub tub rau khoom. Yog tias koj xav kom txaus siab rau kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus khub, tsis muaj txoj hauv kev zoo dua los khawm dua li txheej txheem rab diav.
Kauj ruam
Ntu 1 ntawm 2: Kawm Txuj Ci "Spooning" Technique
Kauj Ruam 1. Txiav txim siab qhov loj ntawm "rab diav"
Hauv feem ntau txoj haujlwm rab diav, koj yuav tsum txiav txim siab leej twg yog "diav loj" thiab leej twg yog "rab diav":
- "Rab diav me": Qhov no feem ntau yog tog neeg uas muaj lub cev me me. Txoj haujlwm no feem ntau yog txoj haujlwm uas zoo li "tsis muaj zog" thiab "tiv thaiv", yog li nws feem ntau yog txoj haujlwm ntawm tus poj niam.
- "Loj diav": Qhov no feem ntau yog qhov tseem ceeb. Feem ntau, qhov no yog txoj haujlwm ntawm sab cev nqaij daim tawv siab thiab sab txiv neej.
- Kev sim nrawm kom paub leej twg yuav tsum yog "rab diav loj": tog tog puag lawv tus khub thaum ua tawm yuav tsum yog "rab diav loj". Lub luag haujlwm no tsis raug kho, thiab qee zaum "rab diav loj" kuj tseem tuaj yeem ua lub luag haujlwm ntawm "rab diav".
Kauj Ruam 2. Ua cov txheej txheem txheej txheem txheej txheem txheej txheem
Hauv cov txheej txheem no, "rab diav loj" nyob ntawm nws ib sab thiab "rab diav me" so nws nraub qaum ntawm lub plab ntawm "diav loj" hauv tib txoj kev dag. Muaj ntau qhov kev hloov pauv ntawm txoj haujlwm ntawm "rab diav loj" txhais tes uas nyob ntawm "hauv qab" sab hauv txoj haujlwm no, tab sis dab tsi tseem ceeb los ntawm kev xav ntawm rab diav kiv cua yog tias "rab diav loj" txhais tes uas nyob ntawm " sab saum toj "sab yuav tsum tau puag ncig lub duav ntawm" me me diav ".
Saib ntu "Zam Kev Tsis Txaus Siab" hauv qab no kom kawm paub tias "rab diav loj" tuaj yeem ua dab tsi nrog nws txhais caj npab "hauv qab"
Kauj Ruam 3. Ua "txheej txheem" rab diav
Hauv cov txheej txheem no, "rab diav loj" nyob ntawm nws ib sab thiab "rab diav me" so nws nraub qaum ntawm lub plab ntawm "diav loj" hauv tib txoj kev dag. Lub "me me diav" ces curled li ib tug me nyuam hauv plab nws niam lub plab. "Rab diav loj" tom qab ntawd nthuav nws txhais caj npab uas nyob rau sab "hauv qab" hauv tus ntoo khaub lig, nrog caj npab ntawm sab "saum" puag puag puag "diav me".
Kauj Ruam 4. Xyaum tus txheej txheem "tus menyuam" rab diav
Hauv cov txheej txheem no, "rab diav loj" nyob ntawm nws ib sab thiab "rab diav" me me zoo li tus menyuam hauv plab nws niam lub plab, ntsib lub plab ntawm "diav loj". Qhov "diav loj" ces khawm "rab diav me" nrog ob txhais caj npab.
Kauj Ruam 5. Xyaum tus txheej txheem rab diav "hauv tub rau khoom"
Hauv cov txheej txheem no, "rab diav loj" nyob ntawm nws nraub qaum. Qhov "rab diav me me" tom qab ntawd tso rau ntawm nws lub plab ntawm lub plab "diav loj". Txhawm rau tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo, sim puag ib leeg hauv txoj haujlwm no.
Kauj Ruam 6. Ua cov txheej txheem "rab diav rawg"
Yeej, cov txheej txheem no zoo ib yam li txheej txheej txheej txheej txheej txheej, tab sis tam sim no sim txhawm rau txhais ceg, yog li "rab diav loj" lwm tus ceg tau txuas rau lub txaj, tom qab ntawd "rab diav me" lwm ceg yog nyob saum ntawm nws, thaum "rab diav loj" txhais ceg yog lwm sab nyob rau saum nws, thiab nyob rau sab saum toj kawg ntawm txhais ceg ntawm "me me diav" ntawm lwm sab.
Kauj Ruam 7. Ua cov txheej txheem "rov qab Y" rab diav
Txhawm rau ua cov txheej txheem no kom raug, ob qho tib si "rab diav loj" thiab "rab diav me" yuav tsum thawb ib leeg hla nraub qaum. Qhov no yuav tsim kom muaj qhov chaw nyab xeeb dua thiab huab cua ntshiab, tab sis tseem muab qhov chaw sov thiab nyob ze nrog koj tus khub.
Kauj Ruam 8. Muab cov txheej txheem sib txawv
Leej twg hais tias tus txiv neej yuav tsum ib txwm yog "rab diav loj"? Muaj kev lom zem thiab sib xyaw cov txheej txheem sib txawv, thiab sib pauv txoj haujlwm ntawm "rab diav loj" thiab "rab diav me". Txawm hais tias qee zaum "diav loj" yog 20-30 cm luv dua li "rab diav", qhov kev hloov pauv no yuav ua rau muaj kev lom zem thiab sib raug zoo. Yog tias koj thiab koj tus khub twb tau ua haujlwm zoo heev lawm, tsis tas yuav ua raws li cov cai ntawm lub luag haujlwm thiab txheej txheem rab diav!
Ntu 2 ntawm 2: Zam Kev Tsis Txaus Siab
Kauj Ruam 1. Muab caj npab kom raug
Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm kev hnia diav uas kav ntev. Lub luag haujlwm feem ntau yog nrog "rab diav loj" vim nws yog nws txhais caj npab uas yuav raug kev txom nyem. Kev tso tes tsis zoo tuaj yeem ua rau tes tsis xis nyob thiab tsis muaj zog thaum lub tog khawm khawm hloov lossis xaus. Nov yog qee txoj haujlwm ntawm caj npab uas koj yuav tsum zam txhua lub sijhawm:
- T-Rex Caj Npab, uas tshwm sim thaum ob tus neeg tau diav los ntawm kev dag ntawm lawv ob sab thiab "rab diav loj" sab caj npab uas nyob rau sab "hauv qab" tau nyam tom qab "rab diav" rov qab kom nws zoo li txhais tes ntawm T-Rex (ib puag ncig luv luv dinosaur) vim tias lub luj tshib tau muab tais thiab tsis muaj chav rau ncaj caj npab rov qab.
- Tub Rog Caj Npab, uas tshwm sim thaum ob tus neeg tau diav los ntawm kev dag ntawm lawv ob sab thiab "rab diav loj" sab caj npab uas nyob rau sab "hauv qab" tau khawm ncaj ib sab ntawm nws lub cev. Qhov no feem ntau tsis xis nyob thiab tsim teeb meem ntawm sab xub ntiag ntawm "rab diav loj" thiab "rab diav me" rov qab, txo kev sib raug zoo.
- Super Hero Caj Npab, uas tshwm sim thaum ob tus neeg tau diav los ntawm kev dag ntawm lawv ob sab thiab txhais caj npab ntawm "rab diav loj" nyob rau sab "hauv qab" ob sab tau ncaj ncaj zoo li superhero ya saum ntuj. Thaum txoj haujlwm no tso cai rau "diav loj" los ntsaws nws txhais caj npab hauv qab "rab diav me" lub caj dab thiab yog li ua kom muaj kev sib raug zoo, txoj haujlwm tom ntej no feem ntau suav tam sim "rab diav loj" txhais caj npab thiab poob rau hauv txoj haujlwm ntawd yam tsis tau txav mus. -nyob qhov twg.
- Caj npab Hug, uas tshwm sim thaum ob tus neeg tau diav los ntawm kev dag ntawm lawv ob sab thiab caj npab ntawm "rab diav loj" uas nyob ntawm "hauv qab" sab ntawm "rab diav me" qhwv ncig lub duav ntawm "diav me". Txoj hauj lwm no nqa qhov phom sij txaus ntshai tshaj plaws: txhais tes "diav loj" yog loog thaum "diav me" zoo heev dhau los kom sawv dawb "diav loj" npab. Hauv qhov xwm txheej phem tshaj plaws, tib txoj hauv kev kom tshem ntawm koj tus khub yog tias koj txiav caj dab uas raug kaw. Yog tias tsis yog, sim ua kom koj tus khub koom nrog thaum piav qhia vim li cas koj tsa nws sawv yam tsis muaj suab qia dub. Txawm li cas los xij, paub tias feem ntau koj tseem yuav ua rau koj tus khub chim siab vim nws.
Kauj Ruam 2. Tawm txoj hauj lwm cuddle yog tias ua tau
Yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem sawv txoj haujlwm no ntxiv, tso kev puag yam tsis ua phem rau koj tus khub. Tawm ntawm txoj haujlwm puag yuav tawg lossis xaus rau lub sijhawm sib raug zoo. Yog li ntawd, qhov no yuav tsum tau ua nyob rau hauv txoj kev hloov maj mam ua tau. Peb txhua tus xav tau qee qhov chaw ntawm tus kheej ib ntus, thiab qhov no yog qhov xav tau tiag tiag. Nov yog ob peb txoj hauv kev kom maj mam xaus qhov puag kom zoo li sai tau:
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Ua kom tsaug zog, kom koj tus khub tsis ua txhaum.
Ua rau yawn lossis hnoos maj mam, yog li nws zoo li koj tab tom tso koj "pw" khawm. Qhov no yuav ua rau koj tus khub xav tias koj tsaug zog es tsis txhob tso lub khawm vim nws tsis tau zoo. Txoj kev no, koj tus khub yuav tsis chim thiab koj ob leeg yuav tsis sib ntaus. Thaum ua "ua piv txwv pw tsaug zog" nrov nrov, xyuas kom koj ua rau lawv ua ntej thiab tom qab koj tso tseg. Qhov no ntxiv dag zog rau koj qhov kev ua thiab ua rau txhua yam zoo li ntseeg tau ntau dua.
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Pub koj tus kheej.
Lub hom phiaj ntawm ntu no yog txhawm rau tawm ntawm txoj haujlwm puag. Qhov no txhais tau tias koj xav tau kev tawm mus uas yooj yim li sai tau. Nco ntsoov, koj tso ntawm kev khawm "hauv lub xeev pw tsaug zog". Ua ntej, pub koj txhais caj npab lossis txhais ceg los ntawm:
- Maj mam, txav koj txhais caj npab lossis txhais ceg yam tsis tsa koj tus khub. Ua qhov no yam tsis muaj koj tus khub paub, koj kev txav chaw yuav tsum ncaj, qeeb, thiab txheej txheem. Qhov kev txav mus los no yuav tsum ua tiav nrog koj lub qhov muag kaw. Yog tias koj tus khub tuav koj lub zog, nco ntsoov, ua piv txwv kom tsaug zog.
- Tsim qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo rau koj tus khub, yog li nws tus kheej hloov koj txhais caj npab lossis txhais ceg. Yog tias koj nyam thiab txav tsis tau txhais caj npab lossis txhais ceg hlo li, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws yog caj npab lossis txhais ceg ntawm "hauv qab" sab ntawm rab diav, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj los ua rau koj tus khub tsis xis nyob li sai tau. Yog li, thaum nws txav mus thiab yog li hloov koj txhais caj npab lossis txhais ceg, koj tsis txhob liam koj tus kheej.
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Yob tawm sai.
Tsiv mus rau qhov chaw khoob ntawm lub txaj los ntawm rub koj txhais caj npab lossis ceg rov qab kom ze rau koj lub cev li sai tau thiab tom qab ntawd dov hauv ib qho nrawm nrawm mus rau qhov chaw khoob. Qhov no yog kev cog lus. Thaum koj pib dov, koj tsis tuaj yeem nres kom txog thaum koj ua tiav. Nws yog lub cim qhia tseeb tias koj tau tsaug zog, yog li nws yog qhov tseeb rau koj tus khub tias ob kauj ruam dhau los koj tau ua yog txhob txwm ua kom xaus lub sijhawm ntawm kev sib raug zoo uas koj ob leeg tau ua tiav hauv txoj haujlwm rab diav.
Lub tswv yim
- Nco ntsoov tias koj lub cev muaj ntxhiab tsw zoo. Koj yeej tsis xav kom koj tus khub "ua tsis taus pa" vim tsis hnov tsw ntxhiab ntawm koj lub cev.
- Sim tsis txhob nqus pa. Diav cuddles thaum hnov nws nqus pa hauv koj pob ntseg yog qee yam uas tsis ntxim nyiam heev.
- Sim hnia lossis zaws thaj chaw ntawm lub cev uas muaj kev sib cuag nrog koj lub cev.
- Yog tias koj tab tom sim tsim kev sib raug zoo thiab tsim tawm nrog koj tus khub diav, sim hnia saum lawv caj dab.
- Yog tias koj yog poj niam, nco ntsoov khi koj cov plaub hau yog tias nws yog "rab diav", vim tias "diav loj" tsis xav kom koj lub ntsej muag npog lossis koj lub qhov ncauj tau noj los ntawm koj cov plaub hau!
- "Rab diav loj" tuaj yeem tso nws txhais caj npab rau hauv qhov sib txawv hauv qab "rab diav" lub caj dab. Siv lub hauv ncoo los ua kom txoj haujlwm no xis nyob.
