Koj puas tuaj yeem sau npe ib qho ntawm qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm hnub yug? Tau kawg cov lus teb yog caw! Ua kev caw hnub yug yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum tau ua, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog txij li lwm tus neeg tsuas yog tuaj koom koj tog yog tias koj raug caw tuaj koom, puas yog? Yog tias koj tsis tau ntsib dua hauv kev caw cov hnub yug zoo nkauj, sim ua raws cov theem hauv qab no; Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, xyuas kom koj suav nrog txhua yam ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb, xws li lub npe hnub yug, nrog rau lub sijhawm thiab chaw nyob ntawm lub hnub yug. Xav paub cov ntaub ntawv ntxaws ntxiv? Nyeem rau kab lus no!
Kauj ruam
Ntu 1 ntawm 3: Teev Cov Ntaub Ntawv Tseem Ceeb
Kauj Ruam 1. Sau lub npe ntawm tus neeg caw thiab lub npe ntawm tus neeg hnub yug
Nco ntsoov, plaub lo lus nug cov lus uas yuav tsum tau teb hauv txhua qhov kev caw yog leej twg, dab tsi, thaum twg, thiab qhov twg. Thawj lo lus nug uas koj yuav tsum teb yog "leej twg", tshwj xeeb tshaj yog vim cov qhua yuav xav paub leej twg caw lawv.
- Pib qhov kev caw los ntawm kev hais lub npe ntawm tus neeg hnub yug. Piv txwv li, koj yuav hais tias, "Koj puas tau npaj rau Karen lub hnub yug?".
- Feem ntau, cov neeg tuaj caw yog cov phooj ywg thiab cov txheeb ze ze tshaj plaws ntawm tus neeg hnub yug, yog li koj tuaj yeem suav nrog lub npe menyuam yaus.
- Yog tias tus neeg caw tsis yog tus neeg hnub yug, nco ntsoov koj suav nrog nws lub npe thiab. Yog tias cov qhua feem ntau tsis paub nws, suav nrog lwm cov ntaub ntawv xws li nws lub npe tag nrho lossis nws kev sib raug zoo rau tus neeg hnub yug.
- Piv txwv li, koj yuav hais tias, "Mary, Karen tus viv ncaus, vam tias koj yuav koom nrog hauv kev ua koob tsheej no."
Kauj Ruam 2. Piav txog dab tsi yuav ua kev zoo siab
Tom qab hais cov npe ntawm cov neeg caw thiab tus neeg hnub yug, piav qhia dab tsi yuav ua kev zoo siab ntawm tog. Cov txheej txheem hauv kab lus no tuaj yeem siv rau txhua qhov kev ua koob tsheej; tab sis feem ntau, kev ua koob tsheej uas xav tau kev caw yog hnub yug.
- Tsis txhob ntshai suav nrog cov ntsiab lus tshwj xeeb xws li hnub nyoog tus neeg muaj hnub nyoog li cas, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog tog neeg yog hnub tseem ceeb.
- Piv txwv li, koj yuav hais tias, "Tsis ntev Karen yuav muaj 40!"
Kauj Ruam 3. Nkag mus rau lub sijhawm ntawm tog neeg
Lub sijhawm yog ib qho ntawm cov ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau hais tshwj xeeb thiab nthuav dav hauv kev caw. Tsis txhob sau ntawv, "Cov tog neeg yuav nyob rau hnub Sunday". Hloov chaw, suav nrog hnub tshwj xeeb thiab sijhawm.
- Yog tias tog tsuas yog siv sijhawm li ob peb teev, nco ntsoov tias koj suav nrog lub sijhawm teev meej hauv qhov kev caw.
- Piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem hais tias, "Lub rooj sib tham yuav yog hnub Sunday, Lub Ob Hlis 29 2017, txij 3 teev tsaus ntuj txog 6 teev tsaus ntuj".
Kauj Ruam 4. Suav nrog qhov chaw ntawm tog neeg
Txawm hais tias nyob qhov twg, xyuas kom koj suav nrog qhov chaw nyob kom meej meej hauv daim ntawv caw. Tsis txhob xav tias txhua tus neeg caw tuaj koom paub qhov Tsev Noj Qab Nyob Zoo nyob qhov twg; xyuas kom koj sau qhov chaw nyob kom meej.
Yog hais tias tog tau ua ntawm Karen lub tsev, sau "Cov tog neeg yuav muaj nyob ntawm Karen lub tsev, Jl. Lokon tsis. 28, Peb"
Kauj Ruam 5. Nug cov qhua kom paub meej tias tuaj koom
Yog tias koj xav paub pes tsawg tus qhua yuav tuaj, nco ntsoov koj nug txhua tus qhua kom paub meej tias lawv tuaj koom ntawm RSVP.
- Feem ntau, RSVP raug xa los ntawm kev xa ntawv. Niaj hnub no, txawm li cas los xij, RSVPs feem ntau ua tiav hauv xov tooj lossis email. Nco ntsoov koj piav meej cov cai hais txog kev caw RSVP txheej txheem.
- Kev thov RSVP tuaj yeem yog kab lus yooj yim xws li: "Thov RSVP rau 08125468302 sawv cev ntawm Mary".
Ntu 2 ntawm 3: Nrog Rau Cov Lus Qhia Ntxiv
Kauj Ruam 1. Sau cov cai hnav
Feem ntau cov tog neeg (ob lub hom phiaj rau cov neeg laus thiab menyuam yaus) muaj lub ntsiab lus tshwj xeeb uas thaum kawg yuav muaj kev cuam tshuam rau txoj kev hnav khaub ncaws li cas. Yog tias koj tog tseem muaj txoj cai hnav khaub ncaws tshwj xeeb, xyuas kom koj suav nrog cov ntaub ntawv ntawm kab kawg ntawm kev caw (feem ntau ua ntej kab lus RSVP). Txoj cai hnav khaub ncaws koj tuaj yeem thov:
- Cov qhua yuav tsum hnav cov xim dub txuas rau ob tog noj nyob rau hauv lub tsev noj mov zoo nkauj lossis qws.
- Cov qhua yuav tsum hnav cov khaub ncaws tshwj xeeb rau cov khaub ncaws hnav.
- Cov qhua yuav tsum hnav khaub ncaws hnav tsis zoo rau ob tog uas muaj nyob hauv tsev.
Kauj Ruam 2. Suav cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb (yog tias muaj)
Qee tog xav kom cov qhua nqa qee yam khoom siv; yog tias koj tog ib yam nkaus, xyuas kom koj suav nrog cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb hauv daim ntawv caw. Piv txwv li:
- Rau ob tog tuav ntawm lub pas dej, cov qhua yuav tsum nqa lawv cov khaub ncaws da dej thiab phuam da dej.
- Txog kev nyob hauv tsev, cov qhua yuav tsum nqa cov tog hauv ncoo thiab pam vov.
- Rau kev pw tsaug zog ob tog hauv hav zoov, cov qhua yuav tsum nqa lub tsev pheeb suab ntaub, hnab pw thiab lwm yam khoom mus pw.
- Rau cov tog neeg uas muaj lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev kos duab, cov qhua yuav tsum nqa khaub ncaws, pleev xim, thiab ntau yam khoom siv kos duab.
Kauj Ruam 3. Sau cov cai hais txog cov neeg taug kev
Qee tog tso cai rau cov qhua tuaj koom nrog, tab sis qee qhov tsis ua. Yog tias koj tsis xav kom koj cov qhua tuaj nrog tus khub (xws li phooj ywg, txheeb ze, lossis tus txij nkawm), nco ntsoov koj hais meej cov cai no hauv kev caw. Piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem sau:
- "Thov tsis txhob coj koj tus nus, tsis ua li cas!"
- "Thov tsis txhob coj tus khub."
- "Hnub yug lub hnub yug no yog qhov tshwj xeeb thiab tshwj xeeb," uas cov qhua tuaj yeem txhais tau tias yog txwv tsis pub nqa cov tog neeg ntxiv.
Kauj Ruam 4. Muab cov ntaub ntawv hais txog kev noj haus
Cov ntaub ntawv no tseem ceeb heev yog tias koj xav tau txhua tus qhua uas tuaj nrog zaub mov noj ua ke. Koj tseem tuaj yeem hais txog hom zaub mov twg uas yuav tau txais kev pab (piv txwv li, yog tias koj tsuas yog ua khoom noj txom ncauj, dej qab zib, lossis txawm tias noj zaub mov hnyav). Yog li, cov neeg caw tuaj koom paub tias lawv yuav tsum tuaj ntawm lub plab khoob lossis tsis.
Koj tseem tuaj yeem nug cov qhua tuaj qhia rau lawv txog kev tsis haum zaub mov lossis txwv ntawm RSVP
Kauj Ruam 5. Piav qhia seb niam txiv puas tau tso cai koom nrog cov hnub yug uas tsom rau menyuam yaus
Yog tias koj tab tom ua dab tsi yog hnub yug rau menyuam yaus, ua kom muaj kev cai meej rau niam txiv ntawm cov neeg caw: lawv puas tuaj yeem nrog lawv cov menyuam lossis tsuas yog tso cai nrog lawv? Yog tias lawv tsuas tso cai tso tseg, sim sau ntawv, "Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem nqa lawv cov menyuam thaum 5 teev tsaus ntuj." Yog tias koj tso cai rau lawv koom nrog, sim sau ntawv:
- "Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem koom nrog lawv cov menyuam."
- "Khoom noj txom ncauj thiab dej qab zib rau cov neeg laus yuav tau muab cais."
Kauj Ruam 6. Piav qhia tias koj yuav muaj kev lom zem tog
Qhov no yog lub hauv paus tseem ceeb heev kom suav nrog hauv kev caw hnub yug, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog vim tias koj tsis xav kom tog neeg puas tsuaj vim tias koj tsis nco qab qhia rau koj cov qhua paub, txoj cai? Koj tuaj yeem piav qhia nws hauv kab lus:
- "Karen yuav xav tsis thoob kiag li!"
- "Thov nco ntsoov, qhov no yog kev lom zem tog."
- "Thov tuaj txog lub sijhawm: tau kawg koj tsis xav cuam tshuam qhov kev xav tsis thoob, puas yog?"
Ntu 3 ntawm 3: Tsim Caw Caw
Kauj Ruam 1. Suav nrog nqe lus
Xaiv nqe lus uas koj xav tias tsim nyog; Yeej, txhua nqe lus (txawm nws yog qhov hnyav, raug cai, ua dag, lossis txawj ntse) yuav ua rau koj cov lus caw saib zoo dua thiab muaj xim zoo nkauj. Hloov chaw, siv kab lus luv, paj huam luv luv, lossis kab lus zoo sib xws los pib lossis xaus qhov kev caw. Qee cov lus hais txog hnub nyoog koj tuaj yeem suav nrog yog:
- "Tsis muaj tib neeg hnub nyoog txaus los paub zoo dua." - Holbrook Jackson
- "Kev loj hlob tsis tau txhais hais tias peb nkag siab txhua yam." - Daws Lestari
- "Wrinkles ntawm lub ntsej muag qhia qhov twg tus neeg lub luag yog." Mark Twain
Kauj Ruam 2. Suav nrog cov lus sib dhos luv
Txiav txim siab ntawm hom nkauj sib dhos uas koj xav tau; ua kom ntseeg tau tias cov qauv zoo ib yam nrog lub ntsiab lus ntawm lub hnub yug uas koj tau koom nrog thiab muaj peev xwm suav tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv qhua xav paub. Piv txwv li:
- Kev tso dag: “Xov xwm txaus ntshai ntawm ib puas xyoo: Karen tsis yog hluas lawm! Tsis ntseeg? Pom nws nrog koj tus kheej lub qhov muag thaum lub Plaub Hlis 3rd. Shhh, qhov no yog peb qhov zais cia, koj paub! Tsis txhob qhia Karen tias koj tab tom los!"
- Tiag tiag: “Xyoo zoo siab tau dhau mus. Tuaj thaum cuaj teev thaum yav tsaus ntuj thiab koom nrog peb hauv kev tos txais cov hnub tshiab tsis muaj hnub zoo siab!”
- Zoo nkauj: “Kuv yuav muaj ib xyoos sai sai no, koj paub! Kuv cov phooj ywg tuaj koom kuv hnub yug. Npaj kom pom kuv cov ncuav qab zib ntxim hlub thiab cov nyom uas kuv tab tom yuav ua, puas yog?"
Kauj Ruam 3. Suav nrog cov kab lus lom zem thiab ua dag
Ntseeg kuv, txhua tus nyiam pom lossis hnov kab lus uas tuaj yeem ua rau lawv luag; Tom qab tag nrho, txoj kev no yeej pab koj caw cov neeg uas tsis nyiam hnub yug. Hauv qhov kev caw, koj tuaj yeem ntxig ib nqe lus, lus sib dhos, tso dag, lossis kab lus uas zoo li lom zem. Piv txwv li:
- "Karen hnub yug 39 xyoos … dua!"
- "Hnub nyoog tsuas yog qhov tseem ceeb rau cheese." - Helen Hais
- "Saum tab sis tsis nqis. Qhov ntawd yog dab tsi? Koj muaj hnub nyoog!"
